20 Things Bloggers Should Stop Doing

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Corey from Passive Income to Retire decided to help new bloggers. He issued a Beginner Blogger Challenge that is supposed to help beginner bloggers to navigate the world of blogging. Of course I could not resist joining the challenge because I feel that I might be able to help some new bloggers with a good piece of advice.

I’ve been blogging on and off for about a year and a half. I opened a lot of blogs. I have closed a lot of blogs. I hope that by now I have a few things to share. If you want to find out more about my blogging adventures, please read my Yakezie member post. It tells it all!

In order to help new bloggers (and even some seasoned bloggers!) I decided to choose a somewhat different path. I am not going to write what I think bloggers should do. I am not going to give any technical advice, or explain what SEO is all about, or contemplate how to monetize a blog.

Instead, I am going to provide 20 things that any new (or not so new) blogger should stop doing. I hope that the list below will make anyone’s blogging life easier. I am guilty of doing all of them. I am not a saint, and guess what… I am still doing some of these things.

20 Things Bloggers Should Stop Doing

  1. Stop trying to be perfect. Remember, perfect is boring. Readers want to relate. No one can relate to perfect.
  2. Stop comparing yourself to others. You are not perfect but you are unique. Therefore, your blogging story is special. Embrace it, and run with it.
  3. Stop moping, whining and complaining about your blog traffic. You will have good days. You will have bad days. It is called life.
  4. Stop trying to avoid mistakes. We all make mistakes. It is okay. Just make sure to learn from those mistakes and move on.
  5. Stop focusing on your blog at work. You have bills to pay. Don’t lose your job over a blog.
  6. Stop trying to do everything by yourself. Outsource small stuff. It will save you tons of time.
  7. Stop worrying about what other bloggers think about you and your blog. You cannot control what other people think anyway, so why waste your time obsessing over it?
  8. Stop fixating on what other bloggers are doing. They are going to do what they are going to do. You don’t want to be them anyway, do you? You want to be you (I hope). Do your own thing.
  9. Stop trying to compete with other bloggers. Worrying about what others are doing better than you will not help you and your blog to move forward. Concentrate on your own efforts.
  10. Stop beating around the bush when you write your posts. Be direct. Don’t be afraid to express your opinion. If you have something to say, say it already!
  11. Stop checking your blog statistics a million times a day. What are you expecting to see there anyway? A smiley face?
  12. Stop expecting to wake up every morning to one million new followers. You are not Lady Gaga.
  13. Stop checking your email neurotically because you think that Anderson Cooper wants to interview you. If he does want to interview you, believe me, he’ll wait patiently for your response.
  14. Stop focusing on making millions of dollars from your blog. Just stop it!
  15. Stop making emotional decisions. Emotions trump your intelligence. Believe me, I know!
  16. Stop being too serious about blogging. Life is much more enjoyable when you can relax and have fun.
  17. Stop trying to be different for the sake of being different. Be yourself. Remember, eccentricity for the sake of nonconformity is, in fact, conformity.
  18. Stop putting your own needs or needs of your family on a back burner because of your blog. You still have a life. If you don’t, then go and get one!
  19. Stop worrying. Period. Worrying is useless.
  20. Stop doubting yourself. Once and for all.

70 thoughts on “20 Things Bloggers Should Stop Doing

  1. Kari@Small Budget Big Dreams

    Number 13 made me laugh. Great list, thanks for sharing. I’ll definitely use a lot of these tips.

    1. Aloysa

      I think some people do take blogging VERY seriously. It is okay to have some fun and relax from time to time.

  2. Money Beagle

    It’s funny because when I stopped worrying about numbers and traffic and just about writing and having fun is when I got a large bump in numbers and traffic! I still check it but just so I know what’s happening. I don’t set big goals. I figure it is what it is 🙂

    1. Aloysa

      Oh, golden words… when you relax, things just happen. Good things I mean. I think there is some kind of law there…

  3. Mackenzie

    Thank you soooooo much for writing this! Blogging is fun and worrying about the blog (numbers, stats, traffic, etc…) takes all the fun out of it.

    1. Aloysa

      I used to be obssessed with my stats, and I was miserable. I am still working on letting it go (it is not easy). But I am much happier on those days when I don’t check my stats.

  4. Eric J. Nisall - DollarVersity

    I think it’s ok to allow emotions into the mix. I find that when something pisses me off or gets me excited, it’s much easy to write about.

    The being different part is so true. It just comes off as lame and annoying when someone purposefully tries to stand out, especially when the projected image and tone changes from one week to the next.

    1. Aloysa

      It is clear when a blogger tries to be someone he/she is not. It is annoying. It makes you wonder where is the real person? As far as emotions go…if they are positive and productive, knock yourself out! But if they are dark and stressful, and pulling you down… then you should not allow them into the mix.

    1. JoeTaxpayer

      This was the one that caught my eye as well. Trying to understand what I can outsource successfully would be great. I already set up an invite (tab up top) for those wanting to guest post at my site, that seemed a good start.
      Looking for more ways to do other things.

      1. Aloysa

        I outsource carnival submissions through Corey @20s Finances. It saves me tons of time and worry. I would not outsource writing and hire staff writers because people come to read me not someone else. However, guest posts are very helpful. And I like to help other bloggers as well. 🙂

  5. Sustainable PF

    Really great list Aloysa – love it! I am guilty of a few of these myself. One thing I am happy I stopped doing was looking at / caring about the site stats hourly, even daily. I can go days without going into my analytics account now!

      1. Aloysa

        We all post blog updates. 🙂 But I am not at that level where I can go without looking at my stats for days. I can go maybe one day, the most two, but then I am dying to see my stats. 🙂

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  7. Buck Inspire

    Awesome list Aloysa! I really could have used this list when I started. Not looking at stats, not worrying about the blog at work, and not worrying about a million dollars made writing fun again. Thanks!

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  10. Squirrelers

    I enjoyed this post…and don’t worry, I’m not waiting for celebrity interviews:)

    #14 was one that resonated, as I think there is too much obsession with monetization. Not that I’m opposed to it in any way, but just the obsession with it means time is spent that might otherwise be used on career or other aspects of life. Have to think about ROI!

    1. Aloysa

      Yes, as usual you said it all. There is nothing wrong with monetizing, but obsessing over it can be pretty destructive to you, your life and your work.
      You are not waiting for celebrity interviews?! I am hoping for it every single day! 😉

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  12. David Urmann

    I think if you are going to be comparing your blog to others that its a good learning experience to see how you can improve on what has already been done. Originality is great but its okay to try to improve on the best of what is already online.

    1. Aloysa

      There is nothing wrong when you learn from the best. However, when you start to compete and get frustrated and fixated on it, then it is the whole different story. 😉

      1. David Urmann

        I agree that it should not be the focus. It is best to spend your time developing your own product and brand rather then to spend too much time looking at what everyone else is doing.

  13. maria@moneyprinciple

    Great list, I find (although I am not that great a fan of lists). So, in the spirit of the lists, I have a bit problem with 11, 12 and 13. So much so that have been considering information rehab.

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    1. Aloysa

      What?! What do you mean it doesn’t look “me”? lol I think you just got used to the old theme. You will get used to it. I am not planning on changing it anymore.

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